あなたが｢いい人｣をやめて本当の自分を生きる方法
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In my mind, "good person" closely resembles the "good student." The student who is always on time, always prepared, never complains, raises his hand to be called on before speaking, and doesn't talk back.
Yet, when you think about it, can there really be many people like this? Doesn't anyone question how or what it is that drives them to be so compliant? It's almost like the conditioned soldier who always responds, "Sir, Yes Sir!"
One rule that I live by is this: If two people are in the room and both people agree on everything, then only one person is doing the thinking.
I can relate with the author's suggestion that you find a "third place" where you can be free to think for yourself. Whether that's a club, the gym, art, music, a new language, the choices are endless.
None of us should be locked up in a work arrangement that constricts free expression of creativity in the pursuit to solve complex problems, engage in critical thinking, and explore unimaginable creativity!いい人になって、幸せになるのは誰？
いい人の自分は、自己満足して幸せなような気がしても、心が疲れてくる。
そうなると自分本来の魅力が、どんどん損なわれてしまう。いい人ぶることから、自分を解放しましょう。
